the reason im afraid to have lesbian sex is because im afraid of hurting a woman. i know how we have been treated by men and i dont want to project my shit onto any woman. i always thought that i could fuck a woman but not be in love with one, but i think the opposite is true. i know the ways i have been approached when someone wanted to get close to me and usually it was with a dick in their hand. people sometimes habitually reflect behaviors they have learned from other people and this is not...